17 February 2014

New phase in my life

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In The Name of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

Assalamualaikum,

Alhamdulillah, All praise is due to Allah, the Lord and Cherisher of the Universe. May His peace and blessings be upon our beloved prophet, Muhammad (PBUH), his household, companions and all followers of the right guidance till the Day of Judgment.

When I talked to people that I’m in a new phase now, most of people thought that I’m pregnant and gonna be a mother soon. Unfortunately, that is not the case. Alhamdulillah, early february, my husband has moved to Penang and we now staying outside USM. I’m no longer stay at the hostel. Everything has changed completely since he moved here. Now, I’m “married”.huhu.. Before this, we lived separately. I can manage my time and my workload. When I went back to his home, I’ve finished all my task or at least plan in nicely so it will not disturb my schedule.

But now, everything has changed. I have to re-schedule my time. Honestly, I feel like I cant really cope at first. I tend to neglect either one of my duty.  It is not easy. My body is a lil bit weak. I feel tired easily. Till now, I’m struggling. I’m writing this post because I need to explain to many people so that they will understand, I cant be like I’m before. I know my husband fully understand my responsibility outside the house. But still as a wife, I’ve to honor and respect him the most. I’ve to fulfil his needs before others need.

My promise to my husband is, if I cant balance my work outside my house until I neglect my duty inside the house, me myself will give up everything to fulfil my promise as he already tolerate and give his permission to do what I want and dreamed for. So, I shouldn’t break his trust and my promises towards him, right?

I’m hoping for your understanding and co-operation. I need time to prepared myself in this phase of life. Yes, I know society still need me, but as a nature of life, woman is obliged in her own house than outside. Till everything is finished inside the house, then only she should step out of the house. That is what I learned from my Ummi. She is a career woman and at the same time has to raised 10 children. However, she never neglect her duty and fulfil everything even though I can see she is very tired. I saw she made a lot of sacrifice during that time. May Allah give me strength as my Ummi did.  Smile

These are my concern these few weeks. Hope that I can manage my time properly. Don’t worry, I’m not going to give up my dreams. It just that I’m asking for understanding and time for myself to adjust my time according to current situation. May Allah make things easier.

     

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Please pray for me. Red heart

   

With Love,Red heart

NUR

03 February 2014

A new beginning

In The Name of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

Assalamualaikum,

All praise is due to Allah, the Lord and Cherisher of the Universe. May His peace and blessings be upon our beloved prophet, Muhammad (PBUH), his household, companions and all followers of the right guidance till the Day of Judgment.

   

 

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Tahun 2014 sudah menginjak ke bulan yang ke-2, Februari. Cepat sungguh masa berlalu. Few months before menjengah ke tahun 2014, banyak sangat benda yang jadi. Tiap kali solat saya minta Allah tunjukkan jalan keluar. Jalan yang terbaik di mataNya, bukan di mata saya. Alhamdulillah, bila rasa macam dah tak terganggung sangat, Allah hadiahkan saya satu berita baik. Husband saya dah dapat pindah ke Penang. Party smile Masa tu on the spot rasa macam satu beban berat terus hilang dari bahu saya. Serta merta sakit kepala hilang. Allahu….Akbar…

Research phd saya sebelum ni pun at first ada problem and saya tengah pening macammana la nak buat lagi. Kebuntuan sungguh. Tapi lepas husband dah dapat kerja di Penang, satu-satu Allah permudahkan. Alhamdulillah. My research back on track and almost complete. Now, tunggu untuk complete last objective. Hope everything will be fine. My supervisor gonna retired next year. I need to rush my research and writing. Target, before 31 dec 2014, I’ve submitted my 10 copy theses. Winking smile

May Allah make things easier. I’m a bit anxious now, camne nanti dah duduk sekali dengan husband. Before this 2 minggu sekali je jumpa. Komitmen takdela tinggi mana dah masing-masing masih berjauhan. Sekarang ni betul-betul stay together as husband and wife. This is a beginning for me. Please pray for me. May Allah make things easier. Maassalamah… Smile

   

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With Love,Red heart

NUR

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