23 June 2012

Wedding Gift dari sahabat KPA =)

In The Name of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

Assalamualaikum Brothers and Sisters….May Allah Bless us always..May you and I in the best of Health and Imaan…Ameen.

Pagi tadi dapat sms dari junior KPA, Fairuz bagitau yang dia nak jumpa saya. Malam ni nak balik dah katanya. KPA is actually short form Kelas Perbandingan Agama yang dikendalikan oleh IPSI.

So about 3 pm I met her at Tekun. And guess what, I got a gift from her. Its from KPA members.

Fairuz: “Buat sendiri ni…Ada sepasang..=)”

I was excited to know what’s inside this box. Sampai je kat bilik, terus snap gambar first.

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The gift….Smile

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This is the card..Thanks for the Doa’…Open-mouthed smile

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Personalized Mug…. Soooo cute….Red heart

I got a lot of glass and mug for my wedding gifts..But this one is very special. Definitely will use them with my husband later.

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Dari Kami: KPA 2012

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KPA Batch 2012 and seniors at IPSI Building. Miss them so much..Thank you for every memory we created together. May Allah bind our hearts together…Smile

 

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The only thing I can say is:

 

Thank You! Winking smile

With Love,Red heart

NUR

21 June 2012

Jum’ah Mubarak

In The Name of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

Assalamualaikum everyone. May Allah grant all of you with the best of health and imaan..Ameen.. Its Friday again..Alhamdulillah…Don’t forget to thank Allah for every second He let us breath in this dunya…

 

The virtues and sunnah of Jum’ah

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Rasul Allah Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam Said:

((خير يوم طلعت فيه الشمس يوم الجمعة؛ فيه خلق الله آدم، … وفيه أدخل الجنة، وفيه أخرج منها، ولا تقوم الساعة إلا في يوم الجمعة))

“The best day on which the sun has risen is Friday; on it Allaah created Aadam. On it, he was made to enter paradise, on it he was expelled from it. And the last hour will take place on no day other than Friday”.

(Ahmad & Tirmidhi)

So, let’s make our Jum’ah today better than last Jum’ah….Till then..Winking smile

Jum’ah Mubarak Brothers and Sisters

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With Love,Red heart

NUR

13 June 2012

My Journey With IPSI – Part 3

In The Name of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

Assalamualaikum Semua…May Allah Grant us His Blessing upon us all…May He guide us through His path..May He strengthen our Imaan…Ameen…

Few entries before are all about my wedding right. You could be bored reading my wedding story..huhu..So for today, I wanna continue a story about my journey with IPSI.  Alhamdulillah, now I move to another step in dakwah which is practical.

 

My First Step

You know what is so special about this NGO? I mean IPSI ? Because we are not just learn comparative religion and how to convey a massage to not yet Muslim theoretically but also practically. My first step in dakwah is here:

 

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Masjid Kapitan Keling. A place where we can meet people from a round the world.Red rose

 

Before I share my experience, I would like to clarify these two terms, Dakwah and Islah:

Definition of Da’wah and Islah:

Da’wah means a ‘call’ or ‘invitation’; which means to invite non-Muslims to Islam as well as the Muslims to the true understanding and practice of Islam, but many a times, in context, it refers to the invitation of Islam extended to those who are yet to believe in or accept Islam.

‘Islah’ literally means ‘to repair’ or ‘to improve’. In an Islamic context, it refers to efforts to improve Muslims or to correct them.

Difference between Da’wah and Islah:

Da’wah in Arabic actually means an invitation and an invitation can only be given to an out sider. And in Islamic terminology, Da’wah ul Islam means an invitation to Islam. When we speak about Islam to a non Muslim inviting to Islam it's called Da’wah.

Many people even think when we speak about Islam to Muslim it's called Da’wah and they use this term Da’wah for both types of talk. Basically when we speak about Islam to a Muslim calling him closer or letting him know more about Islam the more appropriate word is Islah.

 

So, when I use term Dakwah, it refers to an action of conveying or spreading the massage of Islam to not yet Muslim. When I first step into this masjid, I’m in my Fasa 2 in comparative religion class. That’s mean after a year attending classes theoretically and now comes the time for practical.

What am I doing here actually? Basically I would call myself as volunteer tour guide because my duty is invite people to visit the mosque and guide them by giving brief explanation about the mosque and Islam. The tour only takes about 6-10 minutes. It could be less or more depending on the visitor itself.

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Ok…This is not me..hehe…This is my teacher, Bro Kamarudin. He’s entertaining some tourist and explaining the structure of this mosque.

For first time, I just follow Bro Kamarudin around and see how he conducts dakwah through masjid tour. Its very interesting though. But I was afraid. I couldn’t even open my mouth to speak with the tourist. My problem is I don’t know how to speak english. I still remember Bro Kamarudin said, everytime I speak in english languange, I sound like a robot. Huhu….Smile with tongue out

After 3 times I went there, Bro Kamarudin ask me to conduct the tour by my own. My legs are shaking at that moment. Oh no. What am I going to do…If I were ask to conduct using Malay language it could be easy for me. I don’t have any confidence to use that language because I never practise it. I just use English in terms of listening and writing but not speaking. I keep thinking what if I make mistake and I use wrong vocab or even worse what if suddenly they ask any question and I can’t answer their question?

Bro Kamarudin once told me, What are you afraid for? Remember what Allah said in Surah Al-Imran verse 139. Allah said we are the greatest ummah or person because we have faith. Once you begin your first step, Allah will help you with the rest of it.

"Do not become weak (against your enemy), nor be sad, you will be superior (victorious) if you are indeed true believers"
(Surah Ale-Imran 3:139)

That verse driven me to improve my Dakwah through masjid tour. I took a video of Bro Kamarudin while he conducting the tour . As I go back, I study the video and I jot down every word he said during the tour. I memorize every sentence without missing any word. When I go to Masjid Kapitan Keling with preparation, Alhamdulillah I can do better than before. I know my English is weak, so my first step how to improve my dakwah is by memorizing the so called ‘script’ for the tour. Its not that hard actually to speak english. But when it comes to dakwah, there are Islamic or religious term that I dont know. Its different from our daily conversation.

Yes, I made a lot of mistakes and Alhamdulillah I learn a lot from that as well. As for my English, I think I improve a lot since last time I went there. There are some tourists which corrected my English while I’m speaking to them. Well, Its not kind of embarrassment to me. I know my English is weak so I’m very grateful when they corrected me. I can learn from them. Its a free though. Winking smile

Its been 4 years now since my first step into this mosque. I’m not a pro yet. Still learning and improving my skills. Insyaallah I will share step by step how to conduct dakwah through majid tour later, Insyaallah….

 

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IPSI will be conducting Dakwah Training on:

Date: 8 July 2012

Time: 9.00 am – 5. 00 pm

Venue: Auditorium Sheikh Ahmed Deedat, Bangunan IPSI,

Tingkat 1, No. 197, Jalan Argyll, Georgetown, P. Pinang.

Fee: RM50 per person

Those who interested to attend can email me at:

ns.nurqina@gmail.com

 

Hurry up as we have limited seat. Grab this opportunity to broaden up your dakwah skills.

With Love,Red heart

NUR

07 June 2012

I’m Married! Part 2

In The Name of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

Assalamualaikum….Semoga kalian berada dalam naungan kasih sayang Allah selalu. Bersyukurlah dengan setiap kurniaan nikmat yang telah DIA berikan buat kita. Alhamdulillah….

Entry yang lepas I’m Married! Part 1 dalam masa beberapa hari je dah berada di tangga viewer yang paling banyak mengalahkan entry-entry saya yang popular sebelum. Amboi bab kahwin je terus banyak yang minat nak membacakan. Huhu…

Insyaallah entry kali ni nak cerita pasal majlis akad nikah pulak. Majlis akad nikah berlangsung pada 26hb Mei 2012 di rumah sendiri. Request dengan tok imam nak buat kat rumah je. Alhamdulillah dia setuju. Masa hari akad nikah tu masih huru hara jugak lagi. Pagi-pagi tu masing-masing dah sibuk kemas-kemas rumah. Alhamdulillah time ni adik saya yang no. 2 Asma dah balik dan bawak dua orang sahabatnya sekali. Boleh jugak tolong-tolong. Malam tu pakai inai. Tok mek dah siap-siap bawak inai daun. Mulanya ingat nak guna inai tiub je. Tapi tak suka warna dia. Macam hitam camtu. Puas jugak nak tumbuk inai tu. Then asma yang tolong letakkan kat jari tangan. Jari kaki tu guna inai tiub je. Bukan nampak pun kan kalau kat kaki sebab pakai stokin…huhu

Pagi hari akad nikah tu bangun agak awal jugaklah. Then keluar kat ruang tamu tengok umi tengah gubah bunga stocking untuk letak kat atas hantaran. Pagi akad nikah tu hantaran ada lagi yang tak siap gubah. Pagi tu barula setel-setelkan mana yang tak siap.

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Nila antara bunga stocking yang buat sendiri. Hiasan hantaran ni semua banyak yang recycle je. Kebanyakannya saya gubah sendiri ikut suka and memandai-mandai je asalkan jadi. Main selit-selit je tak gam pun. Nasib baik hantaran tu takde angkat pergi mana-mana. Huhu..

Then bunga tangan pulak mulanya umi yang nak gubahkan. Tapi last kali macam tak sempat dah. So malam tu tengok-tengok jela kat internet contoh-contoh bunga tangan pastu tiru. Riben kat sekeliling bunga tu hasil bantuan dari “Puteri Aseela” dan “Mutiara Hikmah”. Jadila dari langsung takdekan…Nama pun handmade je mestila tak selawa yang beli kat kedai..Smile with tongue out

 

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Ramai jugak yang dok tanya-tanya..”Kak, dah ready ke?” “Kak, apa perasaan nak kahwin ni?”

Jawapan saya: “Entah, takde perasaan! Huhu”

Memang tak taula nak kata apa perasaan bila dah nak sampai hari bakal diperisterikan orang. Rasa macam biasa-biasa je kot. Nervous takde..Gemuruh pun takde. Pelik jugak saya nikan….haish…

Selain hantaran ada lagi satu benda yang tak siap lagi pagi tu. Veil pengantin. Veil ni mulanya nak beli yang siap je. Round satu BJ takde pun yang berkenan. Time nikah nanti pakai tudung labuhkan kalau pakai viel yang pendek tak melepasi tudung macam tak lawa la. Kalau beli yang labuh hari tu survey dalam RM90 jugaklah harga dia. Tak jadi beli sebab macam mahal sangat. Nak pakai sehari je pun. Pastu dah balik kelantan pergi lagi cari veil dengan tok sedara. Pun takde yang labuh jugak. Tapi ada tengok kat satu kedai ni veil dia simple je tapi lawa. Bila teliti elok-elok mudah je rupanya nak buat. So, decide nak cari kain net dan buat sendiri. Hasil usaha gigih yang last minit pukul 11.30 am masa hari yang nak akad nikah tu siap. Huhu..Alhamdulillah..Boleh jugak pakai.

Dah setel veil ni barula mula kemas-kemas bilik then pasang cadar pengantin semua. Kelam kabut jugak kot masa tu. Dah nak pukul 12 tapi bilik pengantin tak siap-siap pun lagi. Memang huru-hara jugaklah. Kitaorang bukan ada wedding planner. Semua nak buat sendiri. Adatlah kalau kelam kabut camnikan…Winking smile

Dalam pukul 2.30 camtu tok imam call tanya pihak lelaki dah sampai ke? Kalau dah sampai tok imam nak datang rumah teruslah untuk akad nikah. Tapi time tu pihak laki baru sampai dari perak dan ada kat homestay tengah bersiap. Terus call ‘tunang’ time tu bagitau suruh cepat sikit. Tok imam dah call ni suruh cepat. Lepas tu dalam 15 minit kemudian tok imam tu kol lagi tanya dah sampai belum. Kami janji dengan tok imam pukul 3.30 pm untuk akad nikah tu. Rasanya dari tempoh pukul 2.30-3.30 pm tu ada la dalam 5 kali dia call. Serius time tu tension sangat-sangat bagi kat abah jela hp tu suruh abah yang jawab dengan tok imam tu. Pihak laki sampai dalam 3.34 pm camtu. Masa tu tok imam dah patah balik dah sebab masa dia sampai tu pihak laki tak sampai lagi. Nasib baik sempat panggil balik. Kalau tak, tak taula…

Lepas pihak laki dah sampai, terus adik-adik panggil saya keluar. Rasanya lepas je duduk kat atas bantal nikah tu tak sampai seminit terus abah datang bisikkan kat saya minta izin,

“Abah nak akad dah ni ye.”

Saya cuma mengangguk. Then tok imam pulak tanya boleh ke? Saya cuma menjawab dengan anggukan juga.

Then abah pun terus mulakan akad dan dengan sekali lafaz, saya sah bergelar seorang isteri. Tok imam pun mintak suami baca lafaz takliq. Dah selesai tok imam baca doa then terus dia pecut pergi kota bharu. Tok imam tu ada kuliah kat KB rupanya pukul 4.30 pm. Tu yang dia rushing bukan main.  Proses akad nikah tu pun berlaku dengan sangat cepat. Eh. Tup tup dah selesai…huhu..Tak sempat pun nak feel sedih ke…terharu ke…

 

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Masa ni macam lawak jugak sebab suami tak reti pun nak pakaikan gelang tu.

 

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With my parent…^_^

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With my sibling….^_^

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Dengan Tok Mek, Mek dan Tok Ayah…^_^

 

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With my in-laws….^_^

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Makan beradab….Tak beradab mana pun sebenarnya..Huhu…Hidangan yang sama je macam tetamu. Langsung takde yang lain dari yang lain. Cuma kata umi, sediakan tempat khas jela untuk pengantin makan…

 

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Hantaran pihak lelaki kepada perempuan. Ada perasan something tak tentang hantaran ni? Winking smile

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Produk “Homemade Spa” ni saya jadikan hantaran…Smile

 

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Hantaran pihak perempuan kepada lelaki…

 

“Tak semua orang kahwin dengan adanya perasaan cinta.. Mungkin ada juga berkahwin kerana keluarga & mungkin juga kerana tanggungjawab.. Apa yang lebih penting, selepas nikah, setelah hubungan menjadi halal, bagaimana kita bersama-sama mencari keredhaan ALLAH dalam setiap perkara, memupuk rasa cinta sesama suami isteri & memeliharanya hingga ke akhir hayat.. :) ” ~ Taken from fb Nurfarhamizah

 

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Bahagia itu perlu dicari dan dicipta. Kita sendiri yang menentukan kebahagiaan diri kita, bukan orang lain. Dan saya memilih untuk hidup bahagia bersama suami saya. Dan saya bahagia! Red rose

 

With Love,Red heart

NUR

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